Post the woes of your life, I will do my best to make this safe (No Jackhole comments please)

I guess ill start... I mean this is a safe place. and all that... if you wanna discuss problems or just post them get them off your chest this a way to do it... if this thread gets going you may see sides off people you never seen before. If this thread gets out of hand I will have it become locked.

I was abandoned at the age of 3-5 by my mother at a chuckie chesse, I was in state care for a year where i was baby sitting, couldnt even pick my cereal and couldnt suck my thumb. that really messed me up a lil growing up made my grade school life like garbage.. i had no friends for a good 9 years. im suprised i made it through. then after i was adopted at age 6 ... then later in life when i was 13 i was anally raped ( If somebody calls me a homo or yeah you take it up the butt...)

Then my first gf... I kinda of well saved her life basically... She was getting raped by her very abusive father forced to due hardcore and explicit acts upon him after about 3 months of hard work i got him into jail with the help of a good internet friend and it was hard because she didnt want me to do it though deep down she did... she cried every night... (this was all last year) and if her dad found out he would of likely killed her... I'll spare all the other details, and I bet you like how is this bad for you? so after everything is all straightened out next week I went to her moms and it was unlocked ( we were cool like that ) and i go to the living room and there I see my supposed best friend and her having sex on her couch... so that Warped my whole conception of "love"

I really don't know how i am still ok... I just forgave the person and came to terms with it. After I forgave the person I actually felt better about the whole thing and can talk about it like this...

Thank you for removing "Mask"s post, honestly I would like you to check his posts and see if he did anything that was at least mediocre, He has got to be the only one on this forum who has contributed nothing.

I haven't had such a bad experience as chaotic up there. Worst that has happened to me was when my parents told me to die over and over, until I actually tried one day. It wasn't all that bad I guess. I made alive right? o_o

Man, that Is actually extremely fucked up, Your parents should be there for you not against you... At least my grandma loves me to death. You must have some other family?

Asian family. I'm basically the scapegoat because oldest son=most important and the youngest sons are twins so they're the cutest. I have no importance in the family whatsoever. S'okay, life goes on. o_O;

Well, you got a life to live, we all do. so well lets live it

My parents fucking hate me. Why?

1. I had sex with a girl that they disliked.
2. My job conflicts with what they want me to do. (They want me to work in an office, but I work part time construction.)
3. I'm on the left side of politics. They stand on the right.
4. I stand for everything they think is wrong.
5. I'm not a grade A student, but my dad was, and I'm supposed to be like him.

no offense, but i thought my life was fucked up.

the worst thing that ever happened to me is when i was about 5 my parents accidentally left me on the train and i went to a totally diffrent state alone. since i was little i cried when i couldnt find them on the train. hahaha

then the train ppls called the other station and got ahold of my parents. lol.

yeah nothing really that bad has happened to me. or at least has yet to happen.

O-o

I Don't know what I can say to help, but your entitled to your own opinions and your 18 your own person, you should prove that to them ... but that might worsen things.. I dont know

and robby.. That must have been like omg traumatizing as a child... that is pretty bad and they "FORGOT" you? come on.... =[

I don't know man, my parents forget things like crazy. Also CtrlAltElite, are your parents asian? Cause my parents expect me to be like that too. They would beat me if I didn't (I never did). Doesn't hurt anymore so they just got tired of it. Nice.

TaChiKaZe wrote:I don't know man, my parents forget things like crazy. Also CtrlAltElite, are your parents asian? Cause my parents expect me to be like that too. They would beat me if I didn't (I never did). Doesn't hurt anymore so they just got tired of it. Nice.

No. I'm white, of German and British descent.

Dcyf their asses >_> if ya wanna

I never met any German or British people, wonder how it's like in your shoes?

TaChiKaZe wrote:I never met any German or British people, wonder how it's like in your shoes?

Its nowhere near as bad as the Asian parents, because my parents only drop hints. Most Asian parents will tell you directly what they think is wrong. My father, who is 100% German, has that stupid "GET EVERYTHING RIGHT THE FIRST TIME" mentality. If its not correct, then you just failed. My mother is less harsh on me, but that's only because she prefers my sister much much more, to the point where she thinks that my sister is the perfect child.

Wow! That's the opposite of my parents. My brothers = Perfect. Get everything BETTER than everyone else. You are ALWAYS wrong, nothing you ever do will be right unless other people say so.

A little off topic, but after the post from mask i'm surprised this topic is going places. but well... I have a white godfather who is really successful and all that... he was really upset about my truancy and he is very religious, Great guy but he doesn't really understand fully i want to be who i want to be. he was the best growing up and still is awesome he was in his 40's playing Mario kart with me lulz. but I mean I'm like the opposite of him. I dropped out and didn't make conformation. we are cool with each other but I feel like every time I disappointed him...

But I'm lucky, my family is very supportive and loving...one of my friends was basically allowed to move in as well.

It's okay man, people have different beliefs. If I were down when my friends didn't believe in what I believed, I would be underground. Works things out if you can, if not show him what you want in life. If you feel like you disappointed him in some way, that means that you might not be sure of what you want to do so just make sure. Nothing else to say but yea, good luck.

ChaoticFury wrote:and robby.. That must have been like omg traumatizing as a child... that is pretty bad and they "FORGOT" you? come on.... =[

lol yeah

my mom told me she though she was holding my hand but was actually holding a bag. and she was stressed out cuz she dosent like to get on "transportation vehicles" xD yeah..she has an issue.. lol

Thanks, He was a big influence on me growing up.. Thank you

My sister was MY biggest influence. Maybe that was bad because she was always rebellious against my parents. o_O....

Well it was bad for your body lol.. >_> but I mean no it was good, helped you become who you are today, despite your dumb moments your a really cool guy =]

I think talking to you each time makes me dumber. THANKS FRIEND! =D

Yesh... I've killed soooo many of your brain cells with the power of youtube!

My dog died yesterday, I wasnt even told about it untill this morning over breakfast, and i've been fkn depressed all day.

I've had more tragic moments then that though, however my emo days are over